ABOUT BELINDA

Belinda is a trauma-informed Somatic Sex and Relationship Therapist and Pleasure Coach.

She has been working with clients as a Holistic Therapist and coach for 17 years in the field of Counselling, mindfulness, embodiment, sexuality and healing. She has a passion for working with those who experience anxiety and fears about engaging in intimacy and sex and those with challenges with self-love, libido issues, numbness and erectile dysfunction. Working through an embodied lens, she helps clients learn to listen to messages from their body, develop agency, build greater sensuality, and feel more capable of choosing consensual, enjoyable experiences by learning how to communicate their intimacy and pleasure needs authentically.

Her work helps to awaken pleasure, confidence, sensuality and increase curiosity.

She works with couples and has been trained extensively in Tantra, Gottman Couples Therapy, and Non-violent Communication. She creates a safe and non-judgmental space to have open conversations to address the many stressors and factors that go on to affect sex, pleasure, life joy and relationships. She works with clients to find practical and loving pathways and solutions to build the connection and understanding that they seek.

Her sessions are inspiring and gentle, using Counselling, coaching, connection exercises, erotic embodiment tools and education. Belinda helps clients learn to activate aliveness and confidence back to sex, their body and relationships. Sex Therapy is a holistic approach to transform & move beyond challenges, disinterest and fear to feel sensually alive, engaged & connected in intimacy and sex. 

Sessions are available via ZOOM or in person within the Geelong region of Victoria.

 

“Their guidance in this area is truly incredible. I always feel I am held in such safe, encouraging hands with them."

New Clients
If it is your first session, please select 'New Client: Individual' or 'New Client: Couples/CNM' or ‘Individual Supervision’. Select between an online session or an in-person session.

It's important that new clients select this option as we require you to fill in details and sign terms and conditions prior to your first appointment.

We need card details to ensure payment and its also a part of our cancellation policy to store card details.

Please be aware that ALL FIRST APPOINTMENTS must be paid for 48 hours prior to the time of appointment.

Existing Clients
If you are an existing client, please select 'Existing Client: Individual' or 'Existing Client: Couples/CNM'. Select between an online session or an in-person session.

If you have any questions or cannot find an appointment time that works for you, please reach out to discuss how a different time could be accommodated. Please email us via info@pleasureloverelating.com

We look forward to seeing you soon

SEE BELINDA FOR

Here is a list of some examples of things we can talk about openly, however anything in the realms of relationships, sexuality and intimacy is welcomed.

Sexuality

  • Pain or numbness during sex

  • Healing anxiety, feeling stuck & fears

  • Body shame

  • Libido issues- low desire- lack of pleasure

  • Feminine embodiment

  • Ejaculation/ Erectile issues for Penis owners

  • Learn to become orgasmic/ multi-orgasmic and have more pleasure!

  • Presence & connection- deepening intimacy

  • Issues with receiving or giving

  • Post- birth / surgery pain

  • Boundaries & consent

  • Lack of sensation

  • Learning to trust

  • Masturbation/ Self pleasure rituals

  • Tantric techniques

  • Sex education

  • Learn sex techniques

  • Expanding pleasure- kink, touch, anal play & more.

  • Pleasure Coaching

  • Arousal control ​

  • Communicating needs

Relationship Therapy

  • Understand yourself and others better

  • Relate in ways that mean you feel seen and heard

  • Improve your listening and communication skills

  • Pain issues

  • Challenges with libido

  • Anxiety

  • Loss of connection

  • Trust issues

  • Inability to orgasm 

  • Self esteem

  • Arousal, erectile and ejaculation issues

  • ENM / Open / BDSM / Kink inclusive

I welcome all relationship configurations and work within a monogamous and polyamorous framework.

 I welcome people of all genders LGBTQIA in my clinic sessions.

PROFESSIONAL MEMBERSHIPS

Somatic Sex Educators Association of Australasia - General Member http://sseaa.org/code-of-ethics/

QUALIFICATIONS & PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT

B.Arts- Deakin Uni

Dip. Ed.- Southern Cross Uni

Certified Sexological Bodywork- Institute of Somatic Sexology

Embodied Counselling intro certificate- Institute of Somatic Sexology

Desire Discrepancy in Couples- Tanya Koens, Clinical Sexologist

Gottman  Couples Therapy Training Level 1- The Gottman Institute

Steiner Teacher Training- Melbourne Rudolph Steiner 

Dip. Kinesiology -Australian College of Complimentary Medicine

Basic Certificate of Counselling- S.W. TAFE 

​Qualified Heart Touch Practitioner - Dr Simon Martin

Non-Violent Communication - 2 days workshop

Certified N.L.P. Practitioner- The Coaching Institute

Erotic Embodiment teacher- I.S.S.

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Trauma-Informed Bodywork Practitioner Training - Nisha Gill

Trauma & the Brain. Module 1- Sexual Assault & Family Violence Centre.

Trauma & the Brain. Module 2- Sexual Assault & Family Violence Centre

Tantra Priestess Training - Ellie Wilde

Fundamentals of Tantra- Embodied Awakening Academy

The Dark Erotic - Winter Jade Icely

Michaela Boehm Tantra- Wild Women’s Way workshop two days.

Michaela Boehm Tantra- Shadow Tantra principles

Tantra & Polarity principles -  Michaela Boehm (ongoing)

Tantra is Love-  2 days training Emma Power

Opening up to opening up- Curious Creatures

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Scrying workshop- Winter Jade Icely

Evolutionary Women Embodiment - Devashi Shakti

Tigress Workshop- Atira tan

Esoteric Acupuncture - Mikio Sankey

Soul template Kinesiology- Grace Ambrook

D.N.A. imprints Kinesiology- Dr Charles Krebbs

Awakening Series Tantra Yoga - Emma Power

Fun little sex games- Curious creatures

FEAST- Festival of Embodiment and Sexual Transformation 2 1/2 days

Intro to Kink- Seani Love 2 hours -confest

Creating Kink containers- online live Q & A with Aerie Shore 

Lam Rim Meditation Course- 10 days - India

Ongoing Meditation Guidance- Jess Huon

Reiki 1 & 2

Timeline Therapy & Deep State Re-patterning- The Coaching Institute.
 

My biggest lessons have come from life, leaning into the challenges and finding ways to keep the spark alive in my relationship with myself after 25 years with my partner.